Punishment in Sex
Punishment in sex is often done by anyone of the sexual partners for enjoyment. It is like the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal. Many cultures describe pain because of this as an aphrodisiac. There is pleasure in certain kinds of pain. Lots of people enjoy spanking; giving or receiving or both and there are many different ways you can do it. A majority of women have fantasies about being punished. Most men, find punishing a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on too.
Ways of Punishing Sex Partners
Punishment may be carried out with the use of a bare hand, or with any of a variety of implements, including a paddle, strap, hairbrush or belt. Other popular tools are canes, switches, sneakers, rulers. Punishments are commonly combined with other forms of sexual foreplay, such as oral sex, sexual role-playing and age play. The most common type of punishment is administered on the bare buttocks, but can also be combined with bondage, in order to heighten sexual arousal and feelings of helplessness.
Apparatus and Costumes Used For Punishment
A spanking horse is a piece of furniture used to position a spanker on, with or without restraints. They come in many sizes and styles, the most popular of which are similar to a sawhorse with a padded top and rings for restraints for punishment purposes. As costumes there is a spank skirt which has an additional opening in back designed to expose the buttocks. A spank skirt suggests that the wearer could be spanked “bare bottom” without removing or repositioning the skirt. Regardless of the gender of the wearer, spank skirts are usually considered female attire. The male gender role equivalent might be motorcycle chaps. Other garments associated with punishment as well as humiliation are ruffled panties, women’s panties with rows of ruffles on the rear panel or outside.
Why Sex Partners Prefer To Be Punished
Usual sex at a time seems to be boring after a time. That is why to bring more excitement in sex they find a way to punish others. It is learnt that punishment during sex is greatly wanted by both men and women.