Dommes- A woman who takes control over man during sex
Dommes is a woman or women who takes the dominant role in sexual relationship. “Mistress”, “domme”, “domina” or “maitresse are some common form of address for it. Now the fact is that there is no predefined set of activities that necessarily fall within the sphere of female dominance. Typically, the female dominant determines the actual activities within the context of a consensual encounter. When it comes to career aspirations, most women don’t think whips, ropes and handcuffs. But word on the street is that many women are turning to freelance fetish work to keep up with their expenses. While Dominatrices come from many different backgrounds, it has been observed that 39% of them are educated and went to school, college even university.
Activities performed by the dommes
Activities can include strap-on dildo penetration in which the dominant partner performs anal sex on the submissive partner, face sitting or smothering, which both tends to focus on the submissive partner giving the dominant partner cunnilingus, or in some instances “forced” feminization of a male partner. Practices of domination common to many BDSM and other various sexual relationships are also prevalent, such as various forms of orgasm denial, cock and ball torture, tease and denial and tie and tease, as well as age play, erotic spanking, cunnilingus, body worship, foot worship, ass worship, face slapping, hair pulling, caning, dripping hot wax on the genitals, heavy whipping, spitting, golden showers, and forced chastity.
Tips to be dommes
Being a dommes is not walking in the park, after all, they do have to wear spiked-heeled, thigh-high boots. They must possess the character of asking their motives, starting slowly, communicating, accepting that they might not get everything they want, showing what’s in it for her, not to top from the bottom. Besides she chooses when, where, how, and for how long as well as continue to strengthen the relationship in other areas. They should make sure they do the things like they do them lots. If something feels right but they feel confused about it, know that they reflect on it later.
Do not get caught in the trap of thinking, “Ok, I can do this. I can stomach it to please my partner because I love him.” It defeats the purpose. Most of these examples are fairly tame, but they must know their partner, his health situation, allergies. Always have a communication mode set up, either agree to talk openly during the entire time or set up a “SAFEWORD”. Then dommes will be able to attract their sex lovers.