BONDAGE – Restraining A Willing Person From Sexual Pleasure
Bondage is a type of sexual practice where items like handcuffs, chains, ropes etc.are used to restrain a willing person for sexual enjoyment. Bondage often has to do with BDSM. It is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism and masochism (S&M). Actually participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants. They are like donar. Those participants who receives the activities or who are controlled by their partners are typically known as bottoms or submissives. And they are like acceptor.
Activities In Bondage sex:
The tops usually bind the hands, legs of the bottoms with different items. They do it by the direction got from the bottoms. Oral, anal or vaginal sexual intercourse may occur within this session. Participants may also be a “switch”, which means that they can play either or both roles, top or bottom, depending on their wish. The tops or bottoms may be men or women. After the completion of bondage activities they do normal sex which gives them heavenly pleasure.
Safe Words for Bondage sex:
“No”, “Stop”, and “Don’t” etc. are not perfect safe word for sexual practice like Bondage. These Words are meaningless to the tops but of course bottoms want to mean something by these words. So safe word should be something that one can remember and call to mind when things are either not going good as planned or have crossed a limit of painfulness. The most common used form of safe words are “green”, “yellow”, and “red”. “Red” is meaning to stop and there would be no further play. “Yellow” is meaning that “This is getting too intense”. “Green” is for “everything is okay”. So these are the perfect safe words for Bondage sex.
What is Bondage?
Bondage can mean many different things and there are various ways for people to experience the joys and delights of bondage. This type of sexual play falls under the BSDM umbrella and involves the use of restraints for sexual pleasure. The types of restraints that are used can vary from ropes, cuffs, blindfolds, gags to just about anything one can imagine. There are also varying degrees of this form of sexual play, some may partake in what is known as light and bedroom bondage or some may enjoy in being bound and gagged in a dungeon of sorts. Continue reading